When you come under the influence of the Holy Spirit, you develop a completely different set of character traits. You virtually change into a different person.
Instead of lust you are full of love.
Instead of discontentment you are full of joy and peace.
Instead of impatience you are full of longsuffering and gentleness.
Instead of wickedness you are full of goodness.
Instead of mistrust and suspicion you are full of faith.
Instead of pride and arrogance you are full of meekness and temperance.
Naturally human beings are not full of love and joy, peace, longsuffering, gentleness, goodness, faith, meekness and temperance.
Allow the Holy Spirit to influence you and bring out these wonderful character traits. Embrace every experience in life as a God-given opportunity to bear fruit. Be blessed!